This article demonstrates how veteran families are also affected by the troubles that veterans face. This is why it is important for us to provide services through SSVF to bring a full spectrum of care through housing, counseling, advocacy, and employment services without ignoring the need for family support.
Family is an integral part of the veteran and it cannot be overstated. A struggling vet does not need another obstacle to getting his or her life on track. As parents, they have pressure to succeed for themselves and their children. They need our support.
KSL – Recent reports show that efforts to help veterans in need of crisis intervention are working. But what kind of an effect can a veteran’s physical or emotional disorders have on their children?
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs recently released its latest findings on veterans and suicide, and there are some trends that indicate progress is being made on the issue.
However, many major health problems plague the veteran population. In 2011, more than 476,000 veterans with primary or secondary diagnosis of PTSD received treatment at Department of Veterans Affairs’ medical centers and clinics alone, according to the department’s website. Issues like PTSD don’t stop at the veteran, they affect the entire family.
“Living around that kind of stress is just as hard for kids as it is for adults,” said Douglas Goldsmith, executive director of The Children’s Center in Salt Lake City.
Douglas regularly hears from veterans who have come home and have developed PTSD. He said he hears about a range of issues these veterans face, from waking up screaming, yelling at their kids more or an increased alcohol dependency.
“Those who see parents with emotional impairments are subjected to parents that may be screaming in the middle of the night,” Goldsmith said.
Goldsmith also said it may be hard for kids to understand why their mom or dad came home different than what they remember. If the child develops problems because of their parents’ PTSD, it may manifest itself in several different ways. For instance, the child may become less engaged with one parent than the other.
“Parents may see a child have difficulty sleeping,” he said. “The child may have changes in appetite.”
Goldsmith said parents who want to treat their kids for these problems need to find a counselor that is specifically trained in child trauma.
“It’s important that the families receive treatment that is really geared specifically to the issues that are manifesting themselves in that family,” Goldsmith said.
Source: KSL Utah, February 4, 2013, by Paul Nelson